This is the hospital visit that never ends, it will go on and on my friends…

Well THAT was an adventure. 

If you don’t have money and you need health care well… I would say, don’t do what we did, but really it’s actually the best option, which sucks. 

In September James had an excruciating pain develop rather suddenly in his lower left abdomen. It wasn’t, however, debilitatingly painful, and since we are poor people, and I was just getting the first swamping of the semester, we decided to wait and see what it would do. Well, it got better, mostly. 

Over the next couple months James ate better, and we got a car, both of which we hoped would alleviate the bit of pain that still lingered; the eating for obvious reasons, the car because, up to that point, James had been riding a bouncing bus 2 and a half hours twice a day for work which we figured may have contributed to aggravated abdominal parts.

We went through all of the holidays and, hey, the pain was still there, ever so subtly, three months after it initially appeared. Yesterday, since the holidays were over and James was free from work  and I had yet to start school, I convinced him that it would be a good day to try the emergency room at the LAC-USC (Los Angeles County- University of Southern California Hospital).

To explain, in California we have health coverage for low income people, but you have to go through the emergency room in order to get it. In some hospitals in California this means entering through the emergency room and getting sent from there to the low income clinic. At LAC-USC all they have is the emergency room, and it’s the only way in for the poor, so what they get is a completely flooded emergency room, complex triage, and  really uncomfortable and unhappy patients. 

James and I got there and got him checked in around 5 pm on January 3rd. We immediately got sent to the triage room so they could do the actual check in and determine how serious his case was. After being talked to a couple times, we waited there for about 20 minutes before the lady told us it could be up to 20 hours before we were seen, but if we wanted to stay we could go out to the other room and wait for James’s name to be called. So we did. We didn’t have anything else to do, this was our plans. 

James sent me home to get supplies and food for us to hunker down for awhile with. 

I should mention that part of our genius was to take the bus to the hospital since it was pretty close, and our bus went almost all the way there, so to get home I would be taking the same bus route, only later in the day than when we arrived. We realized that if this all actually took as long as we had been led to believe, our day passes would no longer be active… So I was also to get the car and park it somewhere nearby for the next days ride home. 

I left to get on the bus to go home at 5:23 pm. I got home at 7:00 pm. Good job metro. 

I collected all of my various gadgets and electronics, and all of their chargers and packed them up. I made rice; an accomplishment for me since I always burn it, though I was only able to do it through James’s instructions. I added movies to my flash drive. I checked facebook, I ate some rice… and then I got in the car and drove back to the hospital.

I arrived back at the hospital at 9:00 pm. This is 4 hours into the journey. James was seen right after I left by a nurse or someone of similar authority once  to check vitals. Just as James begins eating the rice I brought for him, he was called back for more vitals and to give him an estimate for time; “about 4 hours”. So, we waited. We played cards. We tried to get on the internet but all boredom alleviating websites were blocked by the hospitals network. He watched me play some Kings Quest I on my computer. Then the emergency room folks made all non patients move to the outer waiting room. Yeah. Why? Because they were short on space. 

I went to sit in the waiting room, and read a book. The outer waiting room, by the way, is home to a number of homeless sleepers over night, which is excellent for the homeless and I don’t begrudge them a warm place to sleep, but it is not so nice for the loved ones of those in the emergency room who are tired and cranky and just want their loved ones to be okay. 

Around 12:30-1:00 am ish, I brought the rest of the rice back to James and sat with him for awhile more. He was called in for vitals again so they could “make sure [he wasn’t] dying”. They also told us it could be another three hours before he was given a bed. Soon after that, non-patients were shooed back out to the homeless hotel. It really wouldn’t have been so bad except for all of the snoring. Oh! In that waiting room they were also playing the most muzac sounding meditation music I’ve ever heard. Sometimes it was nice, but most of the time it was just taunting. 

I read my book some more. Actually, I got really engrossed in my book; I was reading A Feast For Crows after all. I kind of lost track of time a little, and realized around 4:00 am that I hadn’t heard from James for awhile. I texted him. I waited a little bit. I texted him again. I waited a little bit. I texted him a third time… still no reply. I packed up my stuff and went to the patient waiting room. He wasn’t there. I went to information. “Has a James Bellows been admitted to a bed yet?” 

“Oh yes, just a little while ago. They wont allow you to see him until he has seen a doctor though; it may be a little while.”

“Do you have any idea how long that might be?”

“No, not really.”

“well… should I just check back periodically then?”

“That would probably be best.”

I went back to Homeless Hotel. I read some more. An hour went by. I went back and checked in. There was a different woman behind the information desk. When I inquired, she actually made a phone call to check, but no… he had not been seen yet. 

I went back to Homeless Hotel. I read. Another hour went by. I checked in again. They made another call. It was 5:00 am. YES! He had finally been seen! And they sent me with a nurse guy person who just happened to be headed in that direction. The nurse let me through a door and told me to go to room 4. These were less rooms, mind you, and more cubicles with curtains. James wasn’t there. 

No one would really speak directly to me, they just would say to each other “oh, she’s here to see the patient in 4.” 

“oh, do we know where he is?”

“actually no, we’ve kind of lost him.”

They told me to wait in one of the waiting chairs right there. I started to wonder if they had sent me to the right place; they hadn’t really waited for me to say James’s name when I was asking about him, and they had been too quick for my sleep deprived brain to really register where they had said he was, or who they thought I was asking about. 

“Oh, we found him, he’s in X-Ray.”

“Why is he in X-Ray, I didn’t think that order had been put in yet? Who sent him to X-Ray?”

“I don’t know, but he’s been in there for awhile it seems”

“well, the order has been put in now, he’s second in line”

Finally someone came over and asked if I was waiting for the patient in 4, and I responded “James Bellows?”, and she said “oh, yep”, and went on her way. She passed a little while later to let me know that James was in X-Ray and should be out soon. 

Finally he did come back (Yay!) we looked at the X-Ray, they took a blood sample for a hemoglobin test, and went to complete the discharge, referral to general practice, and prescription paperwork.

By 7:00 am we were out of there… and on to prescription filling and financial hoopla. We turned in the prescription slip, which we were told would be filled in four hours. We followed the signs to Trailer 17, which was the new location for Billing. There we were given a number and told to wait. Were were number 26. We waited 2 hours. We finally got in, only to find out that James didn’t have enough forms of ID, he needed at least two, and only had the one. So, we were given another number in good faith that we would come back before 3:30 pm with the required documents (for which, I should mention, there was no mention of before we were seen). 

We went to breakfast, got the car, went home, checked facebook, got the necessary documents together, got in the car, drove back to the hospital, and found our way back to Trailer 17, which by the way is hidden at the far back on a parking lot mostly hidden by trees, with no signs pointing to it, and a tiny sign on the side that read “trailer 17“. 

We waited for another 45 minutes. James was finally seen, and told he also needed proof of his income… lucky enough he happened to have a not-yet-deposited check (yay procrastination!) Thanks to this and a good heaping of honesty, James passed the poor person test with flying colors. We went back to collect the prescription and waited in line for probably another half hour… 24 hours later, we were finally free!

We went to the pet shop to buy some celebratory chickens, but they wont have any until next Friday. All they had were quails. 

Now we are home, I am writing (obviously!) James is recuperating, and soon we will be crashing for a good long deserved night of sleep.

May tomorrow bring us a less eventful (and shorter) day.

January the 2nd, or Just Another Day at the Ranch

Yesterday was spent mostly sleeping. After James and I packed up everything at the rose parade camp site, got everything in the car, including our friends Melissa and Elise, we drove home, and I slept for about 4 hours on and off. When I nap, I nap. To be fair, I didn’t not sleep one bit new years eve. After that, I actually don’t remember what we did. I think I was still too short on sleep. Around 8 o’clock, James and I settled in with left over Thai food, and a movie. We finally crashed at 9, and I didn’t wake up until 9am this morning. I think I’ve made up for lost sleep.

I spent most of today catching up on my Netflix, first on my phone while still in bed with a Scout-kitty snuggled up against me, and then on my computer in the other room. I got the mail which included a christmas card from Jan and Gordon complete with letter about their year, and a check from the DMV refunding payment overages. I read the letter outside on the steps, while the kitties sunned themselves. Gus, who is not usually very affectionate was determined to lay against me in the sun, so he ended up squeezed between the bricks around the garden and my side… before he got up and decided it was time to harass Scout.

When James got home we went out to dinner (at 4) at our new favorite sushi place. It’s all you can eat! And less than ten minutes away! This place is very dangerous…

We got home, and I began to write my post for yesterday since I was too tire to write it yesterday… And that brings us to the present time. James and I will probably get snuggly-wuggly, watch a movie in our heated bed, and then go to sleep. Life isn’t all that exciting most of the time at Los Ranchos. 

2012 in review

The moment I decide to do something productive, Gus comes over and interrupts. Why can’t he do that when I’m on Facebook, or watching Netflix?

Well, that’s another year under my belt. This year seemed incredibly short, and yet so much changed this year. I think more happened this year than in any year previous except perhaps my move to California, which was 5 years ago. I wonder if I should be looking forward to an equally packed year in 2017.

This year started off with a bang; for the second year in a row James and I attempted to have a nice Christmas at home. Neither Christmas turned out very well. The first one in 2010 began with a car crash on our block knocking out the power, and just got crazier from there. That set off a six month period of construction and craziness in 2011. Last Christmas, 2011, my grinch of a roommate was out of town, and so James and I decided to have a proper Christmas with a tree and everything. We had just recently gotten a new roommate who had the promise of being a fantastic roommate… until things went wrong. Things went so wrong that the cops finally had to be called in on January 1st, 2012, and that was how this year began, with cops being called to take away my crazy roommate.

After that my OTHER crazy roommate got home and freaked out about there being a tree in the house, so he threw it all out while I was still away. That was a great first week to a new year. The next month and a half were full of packing and moving. This was the single biggest change of the year.

I moved in with James.

It was a little weird at first, partly because the place is really too small for all of our stuff, and second because it wasn’t that different; we just weren’t spending time at my house anymore. I think I didn’t fully settle in until most of the way through the year, but I also think this is the first time I have felt truly at home and truly comfortable since moving to California.  We built an outside wardrobe to keep our least used belongings, and a desk for me for the living room(though it should really be called the computer room). All of my books are on the wall, and I even have a corner for my sewing machine.

During all of that I was also working for Farm Fresh to You as a door-to-door sales person. It was not so bad, except that it was entirely commission, so if no sales were made, I did not get paid whether I did the work or not. I worked there from the end of December to the second week in February.

In February I started another semester and Pasadena City College. I only had too classes, Calculus and Logic. Really, I only had one class, calculus, because I didn’t have time to give any thought or energy to Logic. That was the single hardest and most stressful class I have ever taken. I did more homework for it than any class before, and studied more than I have ever studied and only scraped by with a B. The teacher was horrible and, through her own disorganization, had us all completely stressed out. I was so happy when the semester was finally over.

I had so many plans for the summer, and I didn’t accomplish any of them. James had troubles at work, so he was home for large portions of the summer. His employers are getting a divorces and there was a bit of a feud about how James was going to get paid. It’s not over yet, but things seem to have settled a bit, at least enough not to cut too much into James’s livelihood. I mostly sat at the computer and had my days eaten up by Facebook and watching various shows on Netflix, until the next semester started at the end of August.

I did find time to join a choir. I found an ad on craigslist for a volunteer choir that meets in Glendale, and so I auditioned. We are a choir of about 20 people, still growing some (we need tenors and sopranos), and we are quite good. I am very happy to be singing regularly, and I think this is a choir that will definitely help me grow as a singer.

I was finally a full time physics student this last semester at school. After three years at PCC I am finally in freshman level science courses. Yippy…

All of my teachers were good, and I have discovered that I REALLY love chemistry. I may end up minoring in chemistry… or who knows, maybe I will major in chemistry and minor in Physics. I didn’t have much time for anything else during the semester. I went to school four days a week, and went to choir on Sunday afternoons. Friday and Saturday were nothing but homework the entire time.

Near the end of the semester James and I purchased a car. I have been without a car for 4 years, and James has been without a car for 10, so this was kind of a big deal for us. We split the cost of the car and registration, so it came out being cheaper than riding the metro. Our lives have completely changed because of it. It is amazing just how much time is saved by being able to get in the car and just go. It’s freeing too. We are no longer subject to the timetables and locations of the metro.

It’s hard to get everything in here that I want to. This year went by so fast, and there was so much that happened, but I can’t remember the little things in between, which is why I have decided that for this year, 2013, I will write one post for every day, even if it is just one word. Memory is such a fleeting thing, and as we get older the only things we remember are either really big, or the things we took pictures of or wrote about; so here I am, writing it.

It’s odd looking back on old journals, and realizing there were times in my history in which I was a much better writer than I am now; I think because I simply wrote more when I was in high school. These days the most writing I seem to be doing is small snippets on Facebook.

For James’s birthday we had a Halloween party complete with decorations, all of which can be seen here.

This holiday season was the best I have had in the last three years, mostly because it wasn’t a disaster. We kicked off the holidays with the holiday concert for my choir, which was brilliant. A week after that I had my first caroling gig with the choir, for which I was actually paid! We also carolled at a club for a Christmas fundraiser indie rock concert. We opened the night by caroling on stage at the Echoplex in echo park. That was an interesting experience, to say the least.

We spent Christmas eve with James’s brother, greg, and his girlfriend Lesley. We watched It’s a Wonderful Life while snuggled on the couch with a fire in the fireplace and milk and cookies on the table.

Christmas morning was spent with stockings and presents, as well as french toast bake and cinnamon rolls. Lesley’s family came over a little while later, and we had drinks, good times, and great vegetarian tacos. I spent some time on the phone with family discussing various smart phone brands and covers.

James and I drove from there to his cousin’s house halfway through the day, where we encountered a Christmas day nerf war zone. We then had yet MORE food, and great conversation and got to know James’s relatives just a little bit better.

After that we drove to the Glendale Galleria where we saw the 10:20 pm showing of Les Miserables, which I have honestly been waiting since I was 15 to see. That was a wonderful way to finish a wonderful Christmas.

Between Christmas and new years James and I finished as many of our Christmas cards as we could and got them sent out. I spent my time learning french, and beginning to read Les Miserables. I have thusfar gotten through the first page.

On Sunday James and I went to see The Hobbit in 3D. I think it was better than the lord of the rings movies, but I was also quite fond of the book, particularly the characters of the dwarves. I’m looking forward to the next two movies. Hopefully since there will be THREE movies, Mr. Jackson will not feel the need to cut anything out!

We spent new years eve “camping” on the parade route for the rose parade. We had tried this once before, but that time all we had was a single blanket and we froze all night. This time we had many blankets, food, fire, drinks, and friends. It was a much more pleasant experience all in all. To come full circle, we had one last taste of 2012 with a very very drunk friend of a friend causing trouble in our campsite and with our neighbors on the parade route to the point that he had the cops called on him. I find it somewhat fitting that the year ended about as it began.

The world did not end on December 21, 2012, as so many thought it might. I wasn’t worried, science and common sense refuted pretty much all of the claims. I’m curious when the next apocalypse is scheduled for.

When the world really falls apart. we wont see it coming. Or we will have seen it coming for years and nobody will believe it despite all of the scientific evidence, and it will happen slowly, and we will re-acclimate again and again until we just can’t do any more to cope, and the world infrastructures will fall apart.

Happy 2013!

Oh, hey, I forgot my new years resolutions! Yes, plural.

1)Learn at least a conversational level of French, if not more.

1.5) Read Les Miserables in French… this is also part of the French learning process

2)Take steps to learn stock trading( i.e. actually doing simulations, not just reading)

3) Write one post here for every day in 2013, even if it’s just a word.

4) Do more to help around the house (cat box, catbox mat?, dishes, DESK ORGANIZATION, vacuum, general clean up)

5) Spend less time on mundane internet (netflix, facebook)

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